As BroBible points out, Dead & Company members Bob Weir and John Mayer turned up at an Alpha Phi sorority benefit in Orange County, California last night. Weir’s daughter, Monet Weir, is a member of the sorority, and Mayer attended as a guest of the family. Of course, when John Mayer walks into a room full of sorority girls, chances are his presence will overshadow that of a founding Grateful Dead member.

Check out some of the posts from the night that gloss over Weir entirely!

Sorry, Bobby. If you come to the next Live For Live Music party, we’ll be sure to Tweet about you. Here’s the family all together, from Monet Weir.

Phriends and Phamily ❤ #alphaphi #reddress #hearthealth

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