Greensky Bluegrass reached into the vault on Friday and plucked out “Congratulations and Condolences”, a B-side recorded during the sessions for the band’s most recent album, Stress Dreams.

Written by mandolinist/vocalist Paul Hoffman and Joshua Davis (Steppin’ In It, Shout Sister Shout), “Congratulations and Condolences” confronts the withering of friendships not properly nourished. What was once an almost familial bond slips away with the passage of time, reduced to “trying to keep up on you through the status on the screen.” Eventually, the entire relationship becomes a farce of clinging desperately to what once was, as Hoffman warns “But if pity and burden compel you / Then keep the sentiments as well.”

The wistful lyricism of “Congratulations and Condolences” is spliced with equally reflective banjo and mandolin solos from Michael Bont and Hoffman respectively, as an 8mm video shot by Dylan Langille compounds the sentimentality. Davis was inspired to write the song after his father died and his son was born within days of each other, prompting an outpouring of one-dimensional contact from both ends of the emotional spectrum.

Check out the video for Greensky Bluegrass’ “Congratulations and Condolences” or stream it on your preferred platform. Greensky is gearing up to start its summer tour beginning May 27th with a headlining set at Rooster Walk, followed by the band’s inaugural Camp Greensky Iceland in Reykjavik (6/3–6/5). Upon returning to the States, Greensky will hit the road for headlining shows with support from Neighbor, Big Something, Amanda Shires, Molly Tuttle & Golden Highway, The Wood Brothers, the Teskey Brothers, and Sierra Ferrell. Tickets and a full list of tour dates are available here.

Greensky Bluegrass – “Congratulations and Condolences” (Official Video)

“Congratulations and Condolences” Lyrics

I remember riding back in 95 in that rusted out
Whatever you were driving and the sky was open wide and we had nowhere to be

And now the years do what they do
And I’m trying to keep up on you though the status on the screen
But I can’t see you between the zeros and

Once we didn’t have to try
Now I wonder what you’d see
If you looked me in the eye
How did we become friends like this
Congratulations and condolences

I can’t recall falling out just a slow burn and shade of doubt
But I’m hoping we stay close without the task of catching up

And I hear you’re doing awful well
And I’ll try to understand and tell ya
I’m proud of your success and stuff
But it feels more like just fuck off

Once we didn’t have to try
Now I wonder if you’d know me
If you looked me in the eye
How did we become friends like this
Congratulations and condolences

I forget the way you used to tell me to drive fast and take chances
And days filled withendless searching with no need for answers

So maybe I’ll reach out to you
And feign a bit of familiarity
But all the reminiscing just stirs up remorse with the memories

Once we didn’t have to try
Now I wonder what you’d see
If you looked me in the eye
How did we become friends like this
Congratulations and condolences

I could use your strength to lift me up
Cause fallen into a lack of love

But if pity guilt and burden compel you
Then keep the sentiments as well
The distant concern and conjured
Words feel like fraud and gestures

Once we didn’t have to try
Now I wonder what you’d see
If you looked me in the eye
How did we become friends like this
Congratulations and condolences

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